Domestic Violence Survival Tips: 3 Keys to Surviving the Conditioning in an Abusive Relationship

Understanding the conditioning that occurs in abusive relationships is key to one’s survival in, and after, the relationship. Here are three keys to help you see the role and effects of conditioning in abusive relationships.
1) You did not make him/her do [...]

After the Abusive Relationship – Long-term Aid for Domestic Abuse Survivors

Do what you’re called to do and the universe will support you. You’ve probably heard this, but may be scratching your head thinking about your bills, responsibilities and all of the what ifs…
This is understandable. So rather than jump in with blind faith, I want to invite your everyday casual, rational mind to do what [...]

Why is Marital Therapy Ineffective Treatment for Domestic Abuse?

We assume that a problem affecting two people in a relationship is material for marital or couples therapy. However, when the problem is intimate partner violence, this is absolutely not so!

I longed for my children’s father, my ex-husband, to stop his violent outbursts toward our family. The psychologist/doctor/family peacemaker in me said, “We just need [...]

Systemic Abuse: the Challenge Facing Domestic Abuse Survivors

I lived systemic abuse; I write about it, I know it from the core of my being. But, I never understood it so thoroughly until I was asked to explain it to someone whose life was altered dramatically by it.

What is “systemic abuse?” The word “systemic” is defined as “relating to or referring to the [...]

The Stock Market Meltdown and Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Lost in the headlines about the presidential election and the stock market meltdown is the fact that October is the month dedicated to controlling domestic violence. The irony is that the financial shock waves are likely to increase the prevalence of abuse. The economic turmoil will undoubtedly lead to greater fears, pressure and anxiety within [...]

Domestic Violence Is Not Just About Physcial Abuse

Over the course of my career, I have helped many clients pursue a sense of personal power and emotional health sufficient enough to be safe, strong, and healthy while working through relationships with aggressive and/or abusive partners.  
Generally speaking, these aggressive/abusive partners flourish in relationships in which they are given the power to control a [...]

A Domestic Violence Attorney Saves Lives

It is not uncommon for couples to go through over the course of their relationships happily in love with very few problems beyond the common arguments that many couples experience.  However, it is unlucky when some people find themselves in relationships that are violent and actually put their well being in jeopardy.
If you are in [...]

Ending Domestic Violence: Wonderful You

“Domestic violence causes far more pain than the visible marks of bruises and scars. It is devastating to be abused by someone that you love and thinks loves you in return.” Those are the words of California Senator Diane Feinstein.
According to The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention along with The National Institute of Justice [...]

After Domestic Violence: Know Your Rights and Resources

Unfortunately, domestic violence happens every day in the United States. It’s a heinous crime that for some men and women may become a significant part of their life. In fact, according to a report sponsored by the National Institute of Justice and the Centers of Disease Control and Prevention, one in four women will experience [...]

Effects of Domestic Violence on Children

Children who witnesses domestic violence against his or her parent is a victim of domestic violence as well. Approximately five million children witness domestic violence in their homes each year. A child may be a witness to his or her parent being emotionally abused, physically abused, economically abused and/or even sexually abused.
No matter how [...]

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